Africa: and a tale of magic, real magic

You know, perhaps, that I believe in magic.  Real magic. 

And so I can remember this story clearly, even though it’s been years.  I was in Senegal on assignment, and I was struggling with a problem.  No matter my attempts to address it – blatant ignoring, cajoling conversations, interventions by third parties, etc. – the problem wouldn’t go away.   

Now I had been to Senegal before.  Indeed, it had been my first posting overseas and so its cities and streets, its traditions and rituals held a certain memory for me.  So I wasted no time --  I took a boat out to Goree Island in the very first days. 

Now Goree Island is a place famous for its sad and then triumphant history.  It’s also famous for its fakirs or marabouts, traditional healers or witch doctors (depending on your persuasion and perspective).  So I went and I found him -- the Marabout/fakir/witchdoctor.  I told him my problem, and he nodded.   I can fix that, he said simply.  He then did some things and gave me some things.  And in the days and weeks to come, my problem went away. Just. Like. That. And it’s been gone until this very day.

If I want to keep the problem at bay, it is said that I must never tell anyone what the problem was or what  the fakir did to dispel it.  And so I won’t.  I will simply tell you that I believe that talismans, prayer beads and cowrie shells (believed to have intrinsic powers) have a  place around your neck and in your home.  Oh yes.  Yes, they do.

I bought this beautiful collection for you. Just in case you needed one or two.  I know I do.

Purchase any of these beauties for yourself or for someone going through a difficult time and needing a little magic. You can buy them right here.

Photos by the talented Natalie Opocensky. My favorite book, Maroc, by Albert Watson.

Marrakech: and a tale of the yearly word

Marrakech: and a tale of the yearly word

I love things like New Year's Resolutions.  There's something so, well, hopeful about them. So earnest.  And while it's fair game to be snarky about resolutions (after all, they are so easily made and so hard to keep), I think they're an opportunity to call forth a more aspirational version of ourselves.  

I like to boil my resolution down to one word.  More like a guiding principle reduced down its very essence.

So here is my word of the year.....

Marrakech, Morocco: and a tale of starting the year right

It's the New Year.  And I tried to start it right.  With friends in the Peacock Pavilions dining tent.  

We prepared a feast with charcuterie and cheeses brought from Europe, rosemary cocktails, legs of lamb, French onion tarts, vegetable tian, and mini chocolate fondants.  

I passed out slips of paper so that we could jot down our regrets, our sadnesses, our disappointments in 2014.  Then we set them on fire and let them go.  As the smoke ebbed, we began to feel lighter.

Then we looked forward to 2015 with earnestness and with shiny attitudes. We filled in cards with promises and then tucked them into our bags for remembering.  

With those important things done, at midnight we were ready for champagne, drunk in small Moroccan tea glasses of course.  

And then there was dancing until 2:30 or 3am.  

I've felt a weight begin to lift and I feel better. How about you, Lovelies? What did you do to start your New Year right?

Marrakech Morocco: and an end of the year tale of reflection

Marrakech Morocco: and an end of the year tale of reflection

Oh I know it's The Season.  I know it's all about star topped trees and tinsel strands and uncorked champagne.  And I know it's about bright resolutions and glossy mistletoe and Christmas lights.  But I am not going to lie to you -- I won't be sad to see 2014 go.