Adventures

Mali: and a tale that answers the question, What is it that you do exactly, Maryam?

This is Assetu.  She's my client.  Or sort of, anyway.

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This is Assetu's son, Amadou.

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Amadou's a curious boy

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He's just learning how to walk...

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but already Assetu has big hopes and dreams for him.

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The project I work on in Mali is trying to help women like Assetu (and children like Amadou).

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Assetu is getting training to build her confidence.  That way she can become a better advocate for issues that are important in her village in Mali.

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Amadou is welcome at the training.  He's a good listener most of the time.

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He's a good napper, too.

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Assetu says that the training helps her feel more confident about speaking in front of a group.  Which is good thing because she has important ideas to share.

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I think Amadou's secretly pleased about the training, too.

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So now you know what I do.  Or sort of, anyway.

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PS I'm in Mali. Follow my wanderings on Twitter right here.

Cairo: and a tale of a naughty little boy

Yes, they were a lovely family.  They lived in Cairo in one of those rare villas, a remnant of an earlier, more gracious time.  There were oil paintings on the walls, carved furniture in the salon, and antique carpets on the floors.  Chandeliers shed a soft and flattering light from overhead.

With a shock of hair, the father gestured when he spoke.  He conversed passionately about the political scene, and regaled them with stories of his Egyptian youth, a time when Jews, Copts and Muslims had rubbed shoulders.  An accomplished  photographer in his younger years, his work had been shown in exhibits. 

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With her long glossy hair drifting down her back, the mother was the perfect foil.  She had a doctorate like her husband and was an entomologist by profession.    A modern liberal streak marked her words in a way that was memorable and unusual, even for Cairo.  Like their mother, the two daughters were tall and elegant.  With tapered fingers, they served glasses of chilled hibiscus juice, making guests feel immediately at home.  Articulate,they spoke easily about a wide variety of subjects and seemed mature beyond their years.  And if that weren't enough, even the soon-to-be-son-in-law was charming.  A filmmaker in the midst of research for an upcoming film -- a social commentary about AIDs in Egypt --   he was very clever in a way that managed not to provoke jealousy, but rather admiration.

Why the whole family seemed perfect.  That is........if it hadn't been for the little boy

Impervious to admonishments, he interrupted constantly.  In a loud and grating voice (and dragging his toys into the middle of the living room)  he demanded to play games at the most inopportune times.  His behavior was borderline odd -- for example, for quite some time he lay on the floor with his arms and legs sticking straight up in the air.  And perhaps most astonishingly, he once actually bit his mother.   It was somewhat embarrassing really.  The guests pretended not to notice.

Surely, surely,  he must have been adopted.

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Cairo: and the saddest tale in the world

She was whispering when she told me.  About her father.  Her eyes looked away. It seems that one minute he was there and the next he was gone.  It was sudden.  He was not particularly old, you see.  Or sick. Or fragile.  

She murmured, choking,  I'm the most sorry that I didn't tell him.  That I didn't tell him enough how grateful I was  for all that he had done for me, all that he had taught me.  

She shook her head.  I never asked him about the things that really mattered.  Like the moments that stood out for him, shining, important in his life.  Like if he had ever been scared - really scared.  Like if he had ever wished for something more. 

And then she said in the saddest voice in the world, I just took from him.  I never gave.

She began to weep.  After a time, she  said, Now I will never be able to ask him.  Now I will never be able to give him anything.  Give him anything at all but flowers in the cemetery.

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